Hi, I'm Janet.

I'm the co-author of Tantric Sex and Menopause, Practices for Spiritual and Sexual Renewal. And I've taught Tantra for 15 years in Australia, a psychotherapist for over 25 years.

I'm a devoted mother and grandmother and family is super important to me, as is a healthy intimate relationship. I never had an issue with sex in my younger years. I loved it.

But once I had children, things changed. My emotional energy was taken up with mothering, running my business, and a household. I've always believed that relationship is important so I put a lot of energy into it, including being available sexually.

Over time though, I found my body was changing. Also, my desire was changing as well. It just wasn't there. Out of a sense of duty and the belief that I 'should' be available, I compromised what I truly wanted. All the while, not realising the damage I was doing to myself, my body, my psyche, and ultimately the relationship. I ended up resentful and angry, broken and confused.

I hadn't realised at the time that I was in an early Perimenopause. All my devastation and feeling like I was half a woman could have melted away if I'd known these 3 essential things. And taken so much of the pain out of my experience in not only my sexual relationship but my whole identity as a woman.

Now I feel like a WHOLE woman and I want this for you too. Distilled from my years of research and working with women, this PDF is packed with resources you can use straight away. 

I know first-hand the suffering that comes from being in the dark about sex and menopause and I am inspired to share what I know to help women and men navigate this crucial stage of a woman's life. It affects all aspects - relationships, family, physical and mental health so this is super important right now.