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What Men Need to Know About Women in Midlife

A Mini-Course for Men Who Want to Support the Woman They Love Through Perimenopause, Menopause & Beyond

Understand her changing body.
Rebuild emotional closeness.
Deepen intimacy in a whole new way.

Yes please!

 Is this you?

 

If your partner is in her 40s, 50s or 60s, you may be noticing changes — in her mood, desire, energy, or the way she responds to intimacy.


You may be trying your best…
But nothing seems to land the way it used to.


This isn’t your fault.
And it isn’t hers.
It’s hormones. It’s midlife. And she needs you now more than ever — just in a different way.


This mini-course gives you the roadmap.

For over 10 years, I’ve worked closely with women in all stages of peri-menopause, menopause, and post-menopause. Again and again they tell me:


“I love my partner… but my body just doesn’t work like it used to.”
“I want closeness — but not the kind of sex we always had.”
“He thinks I’m rejecting him, but I’m not. I just don’t know how to explain what I need.”


Behind these words is fear —
fear of losing connection,
fear of disappointing him,
fear of becoming “the problem” in the relationship.


Men often feel confused, hurt, or shut out.


Women feel broken, despondent, and overwhelmed.


Midlife doesn’t need to tear couples apart.
With understanding, it can bring them closer than ever.


That’s why I created this mini-course.

For $57 My Heart and Body say YES!

Your body is not broken.

Sex and Menopause are two deeply misunderstood taboo subjects.

What this mini-course is...

WHAT MEN NEED TO KNOW ABOUT WOMEN IN MIDLIFE

A simple, practical, compassionate guide to help men understand what their partners are going through — physically, emotionally, and relationally — during midlife hormonal change.


It includes 3 focused modules you can watch in one afternoon or over a few days.


No fluff. No overwhelm. Just the essentials every man needs to know.


You don’t need to know what to say or do right now.
You just need a new map — and this course gives you one.

Join the course now for $57

"Authenticity and grace flows effortlessly from this amazing yet humble goddess of a teacher. It is immediately clear and evident that Janet has done the work, at a deep level of her being, and in her own life, and that she is diligently committed to this path. I am blessed for finding her."

Sally

What You'll Learn

 

✔ Why her desire suddenly changes — and what she wishes you understood
Discover the real biological and emotional reasons many women lose interest in sex — and why it’s not rejection or disinterest in you.


âś” How to reconnect with her emotionally (even if she seems distant or withdrawn)
Learn what helps her feel safe, open, and close again — in ways she may not yet have words for.


âś” The subtle shifts that transform intimacy at midlife
What once worked may no longer work. You’ll learn what does work now — the kind of connection her body and heart respond to.


✔ How to be supportive without feeling like you’re walking on eggshells
Practical guidance to approach conversations and closeness without pressure, confusion, or anxiety.


âś” How to help her feel like herself again
When a woman’s hormones shift, she often feels like she’s losing her identity. You’ll learn ways to support her back into confidence and emotional ease.


✔ How to keep (or rebuild) closeness — even when sex feels complicated
Yes, intimacy is absolutely still possible. Just different — and deeper.

Outcomes For Men
(the real transformation)

 

By the end of this mini-course, you'll:

  • Understand what’s really happening in her body and why she’s not “broken”
  • Feel more equipped and confident in how to support her
  • Know how to communicate in a way that brings you closer
  • Reduce conflict, tension, and misunderstandings
  • Rebuild trust, connection, and intimacy
  • Create the conditions for her desire to naturally return
  • Become the partner she feels safe, seen, and understood by
  • Protect your relationship from the misunderstandings that dissolve so many marriages at midlife

This truly is the turning point where couples either drift apart…
or grow into the most meaningful stage of their relationship.

...With a Body That’s Changing...

 Is this you?

Your desire has dropped, or disappeared entirely — and it scares you.

You want closeness, but the thought of sex feels heavy, pressured or disconnected.

And... you're too busy! Your life is packed with to-dos and intimacy is just ... ugh... well you couldn't be bothered.

Your partner still wants sex… you don't, but you don’t want to lose the relationship.

Or, you do, but not the way it has be.

Something has to change.

You miss feeling feminine, vital, and alive in your own skin.

You secretly wonder, “Is something wrong with me?”

If this is you then you are not alone.

Who This Is For...

This course is ideal for men who:

  • Are in relationships with women aged 40–65
  • Sense distance, confusion, or change in the relationship
  • Want to support their partner but don’t know how
  • Feel uncertain about intimacy or desire
  • Want to prevent unnecessary breakdown in connection
  • Value growth, understanding, and long-term partnership

If you’re reading this, you likely already care deeply.
You’re already the kind of man who wants to show up.


This course gives you the tools to do that — without overwhelm or guesswork.

YES! ACCESS NOW

What You Receive

  • 3 pre-recorded video modules
  • A guided meditation for body reconnection
  • Lifetime access
  • Practical, accessible insights
  • Watch whenever you choose
  • Your privacy fully protected
  • A pathway forward that doesn’t rely on “trying harder” or pushing your body
YES! ACCESS NOW

Hi, I'm Janet.

For more the last 15 years, I’ve guided thousands of women through peri-menopause and menopause, helping them reclaim connection, emotional ease, and intimacy with themselves and their partners.


Working privately with couples to help them reconnect and regain intimacy has been a true honour. It has meant that I have been able to, apart from the Making Love retreats that I have held for 15 years, that I have developed an intimate understanding of male sexuality and how it interfaces with female sexuality.


I’ve taught internationally, led retreats for couples and women, and supported men in understanding the deeper emotional and energetic shifts women experience at midlife.


Women trust me because they feel seen, understood, and safe — and now I’ve created this course to give men that same clarity and confidence.

What Men & Women Are Saying About Working with Janet

 

I was amazed at the information about men and women and sexual energy. This is so important for everyone to know. Everything makes sense now. 

Helen

 

I have felt so despondent and broken, but through this now I understand that what I believed to be true, isn't. This has helped me accept this transition with more grace. I want to honour it now. 

Cindy

 

I feel more in touch with my body and what is good for me. I've reconnected with my feminine self and how beautiful and powerful I am.

Kate

 

What's Included?

3 Powerful Video Modules
Clear, direct teachings designed for men who want understanding without overwhelm.


Audio Versions
Listen on the go.


Reflection Prompts
Simple prompts that help you integrate and take meaningful action.


Lifetime Access
Return anytime you need a refresher or new insight.


Private, Self-Paced, Judgment-Free
No sharing. No awkward group calls. Just you learning at your own pace.

For a limited time, the complete mini-course is available for:
$27–$97 AUD


(Choose the option that feels right for you.)


A tiny investment compared to the cost — emotionally and financially — of misunderstandings that lead couples to drift apart.

 

Your Relationship Doesn’t Need to Suffer Through Midlife.

You Just Need a New Way of Understanding Each Other.


Click below to get instant access and start strengthening your connection today.

Yes, I want to understand her better

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