Love
Connection
Intimacy
Without a roadmap back to love, you're both missing out.
You probably began your relationship where everything flowed, it was exciting, you couldn't wait to see each other, and then ...
Something happened. You can't pinpoint the day or even the year it happened but it happened.
All of a sudden, or perhaps gradually, you started to disconnect. One of you or both of you. And then sexual intimacy fell away. It became a no-go zone.
This can happen in one month, one year, or over years. But it's really common.
Then, perhaps you put all your energy into working, career or kids, or family, just to ease the pain of it. But if you really scratch the surface, you're probably feeling quite sad.
Whether your relationship is brand new or you have been together for decades, if you're feeling a disconnect, it's likely that these things are happening:-
#1 You don't prioritise TIME for your relationship. It gets pushed to the bottom of the list because everything else seems more important.
#2 You're not managing your STRESS levels enough so you are both bringing tension to the relationship that is a block to intimacy.
#3 You're not building enough emotional intimacy BEFORE moving to sexual intimacy.
Regardless of which one of these may be happening, the result is the same...
You're not building enough credit in your RELATIONSHIP LOVE ACCOUNT to sustain a long-lasting connection with each other and you're stuck as to how you can start doing that.
Redesign your own relationship story to create an authentic loving connection without hours and hours of therapy.
This experience will give you:
- Simple yet powerful tools that you can effortlessly bring into your daily life to shift from disconnection to connection in a matter of minutes so you don't have to spend your days in the relationship slump.
- An understanding of the energetics ofthe male/female dynamic so you can nurture the magnetic attraction between you, and let love flow.
- Ways to bond with each other so you can build a solid foundation of safety and security in your intimate relationship.
Above all it can set you up for a relationship that grows in love, that supports you both to relax around intimacy.
Hi, I'm Janet!
For more than 25 years as a psychotherapist, I’ve guided individuals and couples to rediscover intimacy, connection, and joy in their relationships. For the past 15 years, I’ve also co-facilitated The Making Love Retreat, trained and mentored by world-renowned leader in Conscious Sexuality, Diana Richardson.
But my journey here began long before my professional work.
In my 30s and 40s, I found myself shutting down in relationship. While there were circumstantial reasons, what truly shook me was that my body no longer responded as it once had. Desire had faded, libido seemed to vanish — and I felt like half a woman. The grief of that loss was profound, and it took a toll on my relationship.
It wasn’t until I discovered a simple, loving pathway to intimacy — and understood how deeply societal conditioning and expectations work against both men and women — that things began to change. Once I began applying these tools and awareness, my life transformed. I found a light that has never left me: feeling more loving, more present, and more sexually and sensually alive as a woman — even 20 years later.
Today, my approach to intimacy is natural, heart-centred, and deeply respectful of the body. I teach couples how to engage with presence and awareness in ways the mind alone can’t access. And I’ve witnessed couples transform before my eyes when they are given just a few simple keys for true connection.
I am always deeply moved by the courage of the men and women who entrust me with their most intimate struggles — whether in one-on-one sessions or at retreats. To witness their vulnerability, their breakthroughs, and the opening of their hearts is one of the greatest privileges of my life.
I’ve been where you are. I’ve felt the fear, the uncertainty, and the longing for more. And I’ve come through. It would be my honour to support you on this weekend journey.
So here it is ...
Creating Intimacy at Home
A retreat you can create in your own home over two mornings.
ONLINE
9 AM - 1.30 PM AEST Saturday and Sunday morning (in Australia)
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Set aside an entire weekend for you and your relationship where you can remove yourself from your daily life distractions.
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You will learn the simple skills of connecting, why you've been blindsided by a lack of sex education, and how you can always come back to love.
CREATING INTIMACY AT HOME
$495 per couple.
Number of couples is limited so book early.
Together we will walk through these 3 simple steps ....
RECONNECT
You know you love each other. Sometimes it's hard to let that love flow. You'll become aware of how you may subtly become absent in your relationship and learn how to shift course to being more present, to connection. It's easier than you think.
RECHARGE
Creating emotional intimacy is the pathway to sexual intimacy. You'll both learn simple tools that will settle your nervous systems and nurture safety and trust within and between you. You'll get to balance and recharge your relationship bank account.
RELEARN
You'll feel a sense of relief as you'll learn why a lack of sound sexual education often leads to confusion and disconnection around sex. You'll learn why it's important to bring more relaxation to your approach to intimacy.
What others couples are saying...
"The workshop was more than I expected to achieve in a weekend. You led and taught the group so beautifully as if we were in a physical room with you. I felt safe and supported the entire time. The workshop has given me so many insights and tools to help our relationship and I'm so looking forward to practising these."
Ameera
"Thank you Janet for your profound love, wisdom and for bringing these teachings forward in the way that you do. It’s the start of a new era in my love life with my husband and I can tell already that it will be filled with more connection, playfulness and love. This will ripple into my entire world and fills me with hope, optimism and inspiration to follow my every dream!"
Shannon Ichikawa
“I am truly grateful to have had the opportunity to participate in and experience your empathetic approach, practical and effective tools and information that have and will continue to support Karen and I in our relationship.”
Will Fraser
CREATING INTIMACY AT HOME
$495 per couple.
Number of couples is limited so book early.
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More of what couples are saying...
"The male/female information was something new to me. Bringing awareness back to what is happening in our relationship and how to bring the connection back was significant..."
Tracy McFarlane
"This helped me understand how I ‘work’ as a man, and therefore how my partner ‘works’ in that masculine/feminine space."
Marko
"The presentation was delivered from the heart which made the content easily received."
Rance Kelly
"The content was easily understood and made sense. Integrating the theory component with the practical exercise really made this an experiential learning insight."
Linda Denaro
"I got a lot out of the day. It was so wonderful to spend the day with Scott and also being in the room with lots of men, not just women. Janet, you are such a wonderful, caring, knowledgeable woman ♥️ "
Glenda Thomas
"I have always had a compassionate heart but just seemed to have lost it somewhere along the journey of our life over the last few years. I have to make a conscious effort to stop being in my head all the time and come from my heart. Be more present "
Scott
CREATING INTIMACY AT HOME
$495 per couple.
Number of couples is limited so book early.
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